After marriage
Sunday, July 24th, 2005by Daniel Shelton |
July 01, 2005 |
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It is natural for a couple to have children after getting married.Children are so called the production of their love and marriage.Both also love each other and their children.
In today’s culture,the burden of taking care of the family are still on women.Modern mothers need to take care of the children and housework after normal office working hour. After long working hour,women will feel tired and have no energy to take good care of the husband.In this case,if husband is not understanding,woman maybe blamed.Husband may feel his wife no longer taking care of him,and he will feel jealous,unhappy,angry,etc.That’s why nowadays most people are afraid of marriage and having babies.Besides financial burden,educating children, most people are afraid of the unforseen future after marriage.They have no confident to carry out a good marriage,afraid of failing in building up a family.
Is this healthy?Just imagine if our parents do have the same thought , today we would not be here in this world.If everyone has the same point of view,what is the meaning of having high technology and science.If it is not for the future generation,why are we here doing all these in our life?
Maybe those who are still single may take a step forward to consider building up a good foundation for the family.It is worth investing for our next generation.It is also our tasks and responsibilities as an ordinary person.
For those who already have families,continue to be a good husband/wife,father/mother and be a live example of our children.Their characters in future will reflect how we are today.
