After marriage
by Daniel Shelton |
July 01, 2005 |
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It is natural for a couple to have children after getting married.Children are so called the production of their love and marriage.Both also love each other and their children.
In today’s culture,the burden of taking care of the family are still on women.Modern mothers need to take care of the children and housework after normal office working hour. After long working hour,women will feel tired and have no energy to take good care of the husband.In this case,if husband is not understanding,woman maybe blamed.Husband may feel his wife no longer taking care of him,and he will feel jealous,unhappy,angry,etc.That’s why nowadays most people are afraid of marriage and having babies.Besides financial burden,educating children, most people are afraid of the unforseen future after marriage.They have no confident to carry out a good marriage,afraid of failing in building up a family.
Is this healthy?Just imagine if our parents do have the same thought , today we would not be here in this world.If everyone has the same point of view,what is the meaning of having high technology and science.If it is not for the future generation,why are we here doing all these in our life?
Maybe those who are still single may take a step forward to consider building up a good foundation for the family.It is worth investing for our next generation.It is also our tasks and responsibilities as an ordinary person.
For those who already have families,continue to be a good husband/wife,father/mother and be a live example of our children.Their characters in future will reflect how we are today.
July 25th, 2005 at 7:43 am
Hi Joycelyn,
I got your link from Drcheah. Are you the one who commented in the ‘Hazardous while driving’?
I do agree to your point here… that’s why I’m still single…hehehe ;-P Have been witnessing divorces in my family, and is kind of scary to get into a relationship again. And the worst thing is your mum is nagging you to get a boy friend.
And I know raising up children is not an easy job. Though they are blessings from God. If you are working, you need to balance between work and family. And if you are not working, you also need to balance between family and friends.
So all the best to you and me.
Cheers
July 27th, 2005 at 6:44 am
hi wei wei,thanks for your comment here.
yes,i m the one who commented in the “Hazardous while driving”.
yup,it is not easy when people around you nagging u to get a boyfriend or getting married.
wei wei,although it is not easy but i would like to try too.bcos i believe God may grant me wisdom and power to handle it.others may not doing well but we may not be the failure bcos it is our action/attitude towards it.It counts on us.
May God Bless You